Although National Siblings Day is purported to be an American thing, I am taking it international today, making it a Canadian tradition as well. It seems that large families are a thing of the past. However, when I was young it was much more common. Most of my friends and relatives were members of a large family. This was mine..
In keeping with the times, (but not with the Jones’, that was something different) my poor mother had six children within eight years, as many other mothers did then. My siblings were my first friends, teachers, co-conspirators, adversaries, and sometimes even (so we thought at the time) enemies. I cannot imagine being raised in a different dynamic. I am convinced that being raised in such a tight environment turned us all into hard-working, ambitious, successful adults. The fact that money was tight and very frugally spent also had a huge impact on the adults we have become.
This picture was taken (almost) 24 years ago, the summer our mother was diagnosed with and died of lung cancer. Living far away from each other, this was the last time all six of us siblings have been together. We came the closest last summer when five of six of us got together to celebrate my eldest son’s wedding.
This next picture is of our extended families (minus one sister and hers) at my son’s wedding.
Well, this rag quilt has taken me almost a year to finish, but finish it I did, finally. Although I would not recommend this particular DIY project for a beginner sewer, you could start with a small-sized one. Crib size would be much more manageable.
The process is simple, start with squares cut from assorted fabric. Preferred fabrics include flannels and quilting cotton because they fray well. Other fabrics, such as denim, could be used but they are not as soft. As my grandson’s room will be dinosaur-themed, I chose a white flannel with blue, green, and red dinosaurs on it as the main fabric. I complemented that with solid blue, green and red fabrics and a red polka dot fabric.
Wash all fabric first, then iron it smooth before you start cutting. Calculate how many squares you need of each fabric, keeping in mind that each finished square on the quilt requires three cut fabric squares. Because my quilt was so large, I actually used a spreadsheet to calculate how many of each I needed. Lots. Use a quilter’s template (a big plastic square that has dimensions marked on it for easy measurement) to measure and cut your squares. A rotary cutter works best. I did this step last spring when watching the Ottawa Senators in the NHL playoffs.
When you have all your squares cut, you then make the “sandwiches” using three squares in each. The lesson I learned here is not to use the solid red or polka dot red as a middle square (the few that I did bled through the white main fabric on top when washed). The last three pictures above show the sandwiches I used, with the last two overlapped to show the possible color combinations.
When your sandwiches are assembled, sew an X through each one to hold all three layers in place. Then sew squares together to make rows. It helps to have a pattern (that’s why I used a spreadsheet) to consult with to keep the squares in the right order within the rows. Sew using a 1/2 inch seam allowance, paying close attention as to which sides should be together. You must keep all the seams on one side of the quilt. This is trickier than it sounds because as a sewer you are trained to put the “good sides” together, leaving the seams on the “bad side” On this rag quilt there is no good and bad side.
When the rows are complete, you then sew them together to form the quilt. I laid my rows out on a bed (a floor or table would work if your quilt is smaller) to keep the rows in order. Be sure to sew around the perimeter of the quilt too, also using a half-inch allowance.
Next, using very sharp sewing scissors or a rag quilt cutter (below) snip into all (including outer edge) seam allowances, being very careful not to snip the actual seam. The next step is to wash the quilt (on a very low, setting equivalent to a hand washing) to encourage the seam allowances to fray. It’s called a rag quilt for this reason.
The final result is quite satisfyingly striking, even though I had a few discouraging setbacks. I learned these lessons the hard way:
use heavy duty sewing machine needles, the first few I used kept snapping because of the thickness of the fabric layers
wash all of the fabrics well first, before you start cutting the squares to cut down on “bleeding” (that’s where the color of one fabric soaks into another) The worst bleeders are red fabrics.
use a plastic template and rotary cutter to cut your squares to ensure precise cutting. Any errors will show up glaringly when you join the squares and rows!
do not use cotton thread, it breaks much more than polyester thread
be very careful when snipping into seam allowances. If you mistakenly cut into a seam, your quilt will be full of holes after the first wash. I had to reinforce a few seams that my clippers got too close to by hand sewing them.
Many people do not mind rain in winter, as they look forward to spring. The problem is that the freeze and thaw cycles that go with the rain can be very destructive to plants in your gardens and containers as well as to the containers themselves.
I leave many container plants out on my back deck for a few reasons.
I love the look of plants blowing in the wind, especially the ornamental grasses.
Most of the containers are too large (heavy) to move inside
I have lots of them so would need a good chunk of time to move them.
For some reason time always gets away from me in the fall, so the snow arrives before I get around to moving the planters.
Whatever the reason you have left your planters outside for the winter, you can ensure they survive. When it rains a lot (as it has been here for the past few days) or a thaw melts snow on top of the pots, be sure to dump out the excess water before it freezes again. If you cannot dump out the excess water, bail it out. If you do not remove it, the excess water will freeze and your pots will crack. I guarantee this will happen if the containers do not have drainage holes in the bottom. If they do have drainage holes the pots may still crack when excessive rain turns to ice. This happens often here in Ottawa. One day it is raining and almost balmy, the next freezing cold.
Another trick to protect your garden plants over the winter is to ensure the plants stay snow-covered. Snow acts as an insulator, protecting plants from freeze and thaw cycles. I always shovel snow onto my roses growing beside my garage at my front door. This spot is sunny and warmer than the rest of my gardens because the brick wall retains the heat absorbed from the sun. This extra heat means the snow melts faster there, so I have to keep shoveling more on. If you do this, be sure to use snow that does not have salt (from your sidewalk or driveway) in it.
Is it raining where you live? If it is, make sure the rainwater does not collect on your planters if freezing temperatures are coming next. Freeze and thaw cycles are brutal on your plants in containers and gardens.
Is the power of vinegar an old wives’ tale or a well-known fact? Vinegar is basically acetic acid and as such makes an effective and inexpensive cleaning agent. I must admit, being very aware of and sensitive to TOXINS, I do use extra-strength (10%) plain white vinegar for many things. This extra-strength variety is also called cleaning vinegar; I find it in grocery stores in the same section as the culinary (eating) kind.
Here are a few of the uses of the plain white, extra strength kind:
drain unclogger (with baking soda)
laundry cleaner (disinfects) and softener
weed killer, but be aware that it is non-selective meaning it will kill your grass too, so is best used between patio stones etc
Uses for Apple Cider Vinegar (ACV)
ACV, made from fermented apples, has the benefits of acetic acid as well as enzymes, magnesium, probiotics, and potassium. It has become more popular recently as a dietary aid and home remedy to:
That is an impressive list of benefits for both types of vinegar!
How to Use Vinegar
White vinegar can be used as a cleaning agent directly from the bottle for any of the suggested uses listed above. For weeds in sidewalk cracks, I pour some into a large spray bottle. Use caution if your stonework is a dark colour as the concentrated vinegar may bleach the colour out.
Apple cider vinegar should be diluted before use. To drink it, add one or two teaspoons to an eight-ounce glass of water. As a weight loss remedy, drink it before meals. Rinse your mouth after drinking to prevent erosion of enamel from your teeth. There are other adverse side effects of apple cider vinegar too, especially if consumed in excess.
So dig out those bottles from the back of your pantry and put them to work as non-toxic cleaners and home remedies. My favourite way to use ACV is to alleviate heartburn. I know it sounds counterintuitive, but it does work!
In my youth, the only curlers I knew were the rags my mother used to put in my hair. I was vaguely aware that my BFF’s brother was a curler, but I cannot say I was interested enough to find out anything about the sport. In fact, I’m not sure it was much of a sport back then.
My husband was a great curler in his youth, representing his club in the provincial playdowns several times. His teenage years were consumed with curling. His knowledge of and passion for the game, not to mention the numerous trophies that we have in our home, (those were the days when no one but the winner got a trophy) taught me all about the game. Not just the logistics of the game, but how difficult it is (here in Canada) to be the best team in your club let alone your zone, province, or country. That degree of difficulty has not changed. It might be even tougher as there are so many good teams out there.
My two eldest sons started curling at the age of four. They both curled locally for years, coached by their father. The younger of the two was not as passionate about the sport as the elder who also went on to curl competitively including representing our area in the provincials. Unfortunately, much to the chagrin of his dad, his curling days took a back seat to his goal of becoming a civil engineer.
Both sons learned a lot on the curling ice including leadership, team play, and communication skills. Both developed friendships that have lasted over the years. In fact, my eldest son met his new wife within the first few years of his curling career. They both still curl at the same RCC although she is currently taking a hiatus to give birth to their first child!
Gone are the days, however, where drinking beer (adults only of course) and munching on junk food after the game were the highlights of the sport, at least at the competitive level. Today, teams and individuals are known for their fitness level, mental endurance, and strategically amazing shots. Sorry Ed Werenich, but the days of the belly hanging over the belt as you crouch on the ice to throw your shot are long gone.
Watching the mixed doubles category in the winter Olympics this week, it is obvious that these curlers definitely have to be physically fit athletes to compete at this level today. With just two (traditional curling has four) curlers per team, they are throwing a rock, then quickly jumping up to sweep it down the ice towards the house. I broke out in a (nervous) sweat watching them, especially the gold medal game between Canada and Switzerland. The pairing of Canada’s John Morris and Kaitlyn Lawes was spectacular to watch as they brought home the gold.
What is bulletproof coffee? It is a new trend or fad, but not necessarily a healthy one. The biggest reason it is not healthy is because people are replacing a more nutritional breakfast with this coffee. This coffee contains what is called empty calories because they contain little nutritional value.
Bulletproof coffee is made by adding 1 tablespoon of butter, preferably grass-fed and unsalted, as well as one tablespoon of MCT oil to one cup of coffee. MCTs, by the way, are medium chain triglycerated fats like coconut oil.
Saturated fats are becoming more popular lately than their “fake” over processed cousins. The fats in this coffee recipe supress hunger so avoiding breakfast is possible. They also raise ketone levels in the bloodstream which supplies the brain with energy providing fuel. The problem becomes when one third (assuming you eat three meals per day) of your daily nutrition is eliminated.
The solution would be to have a bulletproof coffee in addition to your nutritional meals. That is if you can afford the extra calories in your diet.
Abortion is a personal subject and as such has no place in politics. There are too many different scenarios in which abortion might be considered to enforce (politically) whether one should or should not be available.
Do I believe the transition from fertilized egg to embryo to fetus to baby is miraculous? Absolutely. Should everyone learn and know these steps and stages of pregnancy? Again, absolutely. (check out the chart above for a crash course) Should abortion be used as a method of birth control for sexually (over)active teens? Absolutely not. Should it be available to a rape victim? Yes. Somewhere in between are a lot of maybes. I lived through two myself:
Years ago, at 22 weeks into my second pregnancy, I was told my baby would not live to full term due to hydrops fetalis that had already caused a stillbirth in my first pregnancy. I had no choice but to continue the pregnancy. Terminating the pregnancy intentionally (abortion) was not an option. I went through the same thing all over again after two successful pregnancies. I do not know if I would have intentionally terminated the unsuccessful pregnancies if I was given the option, but this could certainly be a circumstance where I would support the woman’s choice.
So, Justin Trudeau (and other politicians), leave abortion out of politics. Screening job applicants to select only those supporting pro-choice (abortion) is ridiculous. Your own belief and support of the pro-choice movement is just that; your own belief. Whether or not a woman has an abortion should be a private matter between her, the baby’s father, and her doctor.
Is it just me or is something fishy going on? Patrick Brown, the (resigned) leader of the PC party, is a ruined man, regardless of whether he is innocent or guilty. Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty? He has not been my choice to lead the PC party, but I think the whole scandal stinks. Here’s why:
the “victims” remain anonymous
who talked them into coming forward and why did they not go to the police instead of the media?
why did they take so long (10 years) to come forward? Oh right, an election is coming up and a smear campaign is the best way for the Liberal party to deflect from the mess they are in.
what was the under aged woman doing in a bar drinking in the first place. I wasn’t born yesterday, I know it happens, but did Patrick Brown take her there? No. Was he drinking? No. Did he buy her a drink? Yes, but is that a crime? If every male that meets a woman in a bar and buys her a drink is persecuted, the heterosexual orientation is doomed.
why did the other woman go to his home? With another male to boot. Then when in his home agree to go into the bedroom.
when she (a bit late in my opinion) said NO, he took her home. How awful and ungentlemanly. (NOT)
These are just a few of the “facts” that are swirling around this scandal. Regardless of whether Patrick Brown is guilty or innocent, he is a ruined man. I feel very sorry for him and any other heterosexual male playing the dating game these days, especially the ones in the public eye.
The saying goes”the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.” In this case, the crop is always greener on the other side of the creek LOL…
anyone know what the brown crop is? It is quite healthy looking up close, just the color from a distance that makes it look dead. Although you cannot see it in the picture I took from the car as we drove by, there is a creek running between the two crops.
On our way to the cottage last weekend, we stopped to watch a huge (?osprey) nest that is perched on top of a light stand at the edge of a baseball field in Lanark, Ontario. Apparently, it is very common for osprey to build their nests on manmade structures such as telephone or light poles. As we watched one large bird and one small bird in the nest, another large (adult) bird approached to feed the baby. This is another time I wish I had a camera with a better zoom lens to get a closer shot of the mother and baby birds. As usual, I had to resort to the camera on my phone.